Madre....by Mea Sanso

Do you truly feel that you where a spoiled child....?

Or do you feel that you had your needs met,...but that surely there where some lacks..and some childhood dreams that would had made your childhood perfect....

I think...no mather how spoiled or pampered a child was by their parents, He/she will always as a grown up find empthy wholes..lacks..times of sadness in their childhood...why,...?
Because in the world we live in
- Life is though....and that aknowledgement will reach us one time or another, no mather how much
our parents might fight to give us the best childhood they ever can....

But in the end,  they can only do a tad better then what themselfs had....
And you again can do a tad much better then them, and better then their parents..
definitly.

Why?
Because the world just took a BIG LEAP in evolution.
That is why....
That old world you and me where born in. It is no more...that world full of cd players or kassett players. It is vanishing quicker then a mud castle build in quick sand....

Our children are the generation that will see movies in total complete 3d televisions...where the actors will stand beside them...and them as invisible observes of the drama in hand.

A world scary for many of us mothers of today....
A futuristic world.....

We are in the future already.....
There is nowhere else to go.....

There is no excuse for not Spoiling your child, the best you can..without taking up loans or depths that is...
Just simply being their, jolly and attentive and comprehensive.
Cause you are the grown up.
Not your kids.
Let them be children..as far and as long as they can.

Like many adults speak of nurturing their child within...from New age books etc..
Well...try nurturing youir child first, and while you nurture your child with respect and
with love according to your childs needs. You also nurture your own child, from within.
It is the best way of reaching such a accomplishment.

No books , nor seminars , nor reatrets.

The spoiled child.....

Do you think that you have a child that is spoiled ?

Think again....
A child that is complete and filled with love within themselfs...does seldom throw tantrums, nor is the child comanding or insisting....
That the child is needy in any manner is the cause of lack of love, lack of attention...

Sometimes we are tired...life gives us stress and we feel we need to rest...
In this moments it is good and important to put limitations on our children...
Let them know that mommy or daddy needs a rest...

This days..they come now and then...or maybe even dayli...we just need a break...
It shows that life itself leaves time for us to give limitations and boundaries towards our children...

But what provokes me..is this that soo many parents guided by people with pretty diplomas, from books or from tv, telling them that they should put limitations and boundaries towards the children
soo they do not grow up spoiled...for me..this is just soo old century..

Think of it this way...just like we ourselfs dream of unconditional love...and such...children are also little humans having the same dreams...the same needs...

Soo..if you heart is filled with love..to give and to share and throw about around yourself...let your child be spoiled with that love...in any expression...playing games together, singing together...going for a walk together...or just watching cartoons together...or getting a new toy, and giving away another, to the Salvation army or whatever.....

In the west a child is spoiled cause of having to many toys....in places in africa or the third world in awhole...many see as child to be spoiled just cause the child has enough food....and can eat whatever they like...Something looked upon as a human right in the western areas....
And well...towards the many toys philosophi.....it is better for the child to be surrounded by toys...then to watch just a bit to much telly or pc.

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Maybe sometime in near or far future...toys will be looked upon as a human right for children...
The fact of their constructual abilities is still far from known....clever toys...toys that make you think...but not just such toys...also toys that help the child mold their perception by touching...not just for babies...but also for bigger children...and toys that enhance the imagination..."

Don`t hold back on that love...just cause you are scared of spoiling your child...
If you like to say yes alot to your child...then do soo...

There are enought people out there whoom are the type of NO parents...they like to use the word NO...almost to the edge of abusing it...

The world has changed soo much since we ourselfs where children...and many of us where told -NO-
often because our parents had to ..cause of poor financially or cause of tiredness or other reasons..life was tougher then...simple as that...

20 years ago life was harder on this planet...for all ...

But..now..life is easier...the possibilities are greater...soo that every child in this entire earth have the ability to have their dashes of spoilness...and grow proud and healthy...

Or splashes of spoilness............

To therefor go the other way..like on purpose...to give you child a tough time...when you know your heart is screaming to do otherwise..is madness...if you have the time, the love and even a tad of aboundance...let your kid take part in that aboundance.....
Do not
give the child a illusion of hardship.......there is noo need for such in such an earth as this one..where all we need is put on the evening news to see hardship....

Life...later on ..will make sure your child gets those bruises or smacks ...cause..even soo life can be tough...adulthood is a tough bit...of life...responsability, unfair situations. divorces..all sorts of yummi pain, unspoiled bits of life...

But with abundant childhood memories of joy and ....this peaces of life can be so much easier..cause one has something to relate back upon...sweet memories...a sence of truth...that life is good in the end...that happy endings do exist....

Childhood is like a bottle with water thru a dry landscape.....and that landscape is your life
You will want to fill that bottle up as full as ever possible...cause the water is the symbol of LOVE.

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Art and children....

Children use art as a way of being...
being present...an enjoyment..an erichment of life...

We all..and all children are born as artisans...
There is no exeption...

From baby`s are in their craddle they jolly their heads from side to side..just bye the sound of music and song...

And when the child becomes a grown up..and has a costume of doing arts...the child/grownup will always have a safe haven to hide in..when life strikes its thorns..

Art of all kinds are valuable for a growing child...
It is almost to say..it is all black and white...the path a child takes in life...and the molding of that little soulds personality...if the childs walks a life course filleds with music,..art and dance...and
molded, and unique and special sence of wieving life, and a richer sence of humour plants it`s seeds in that child....

Even if the parents are not perticualarly creative...the opportunity to explore art togethere is always there...as long as there are children in once home....

Espescially in an area when children are exposed to soo much...thru internet...and cartoons or advertisement...without filters..

An artful life will always fill that child with a warm and steady course of heart, one that knows what he/she truly wants...and not what media channels or trends  want from them....

Fill you and your child in a utopical please of art and creation...if soo just a few minutes a day...

It will make a great difference ..for you and for your child...

And you will see that relaxation comes in being in that place...and not just by sitting still doing nothing...

You will also experience that your child has abilities to reflect, think and create that will blow your mind...

And obs! never do activities explaining to much ...or directing the child most of the time......
Experiment in letting your child freelee express..no mather how disordely it all seems...let there be room and space for that little disorder...
Perfection is the killer of creativity.....cause creativity is like nature....it has its own order...

When there is time for perfectioning things...it will happen naturally..either by the childs wishes or by soft guidance by a grown up.....

It is like when the flowers need water in spring....

A word of advice is to say to the child - If you need help with anything..just let me know....

In this manner one is there...and the child will feel this safety...but also feel free to explore their own abilities...

The golden child is .....

The child you gave birth to....
Your loving little angel....
Before....people came from ...many places,..dark places...animal incarnates....and a few choosen...from places of light and heaven and fascination....Beautyful places....
But then...in time....more and more humans started coming from places of beauty and light.....the population became kinda 50 50 from dark and from light....

Okay....maybe 60 from darkness and 40 spread from light....

But...those are the numbers...that about count today....
But one thing is certain...the new generations the child of today...comes from pure heaven....they are angels descending....into this strong realm....

And we should treat them as such...cause...making the children of of this flock that is today...and those coming...making them suffer a little...gives darkness and sorrow...suffer more utterly...creates disastours...makes leaders mad..and mother earth will answer....and answer great in their response....

This might sound mythical...but certainly is true...it has great karmic turmoil.... 
And the family will have sufferings and soo will surroundings and the society as a whole...will certainly fall....and always strughle in conflict....

But give them a good life...spoiled and all that is....and heaven and earth will be at your feet...no mather if you are poverished or rich....

Also..smoke not in their presence or abuse other things.....they are to have the most utter respect...
One shall sherish them with song,music and joy....
And the field of your life as those to humankind in itself shall grow as golden fields of corn....
And paradise shall surely come...once and for all....

I have myself a golden child...and as she suffers...many others cry also...

It is like having the most treasures posecion....the greatest gift...a golden lamp....

I like to rub her belly...and I can almost see light balls flying out as she giggles....